Thursday, October 14, 2010

The Final Florals

Hive, I've been really psyched about this post.  Flowers used to be totally out of my comfort zone, but then I educated myself by searching through tons and tons of inspiration pictures, and by brainstorming with our florist.  The more knowledgeable I became, the easier it was to choose the right flowers to convey the look I was going for.  If you share my flower personality of romantic and whimsical with a hint of fluffy, I hope you will find the following somewhat educational.

In our case, finalizing the flowers didn't just bring together our style.  It also helped to establish a palette for our wedding.  We had already decided on shamrock green and pool blue, but those two colors are hard to find in flowers.  Sister Lioness also pointed out that those were two "cool" colors.  She thought it would be a good idea to add in an accent color just to brighten things up.  Our florist suggested yellow, and my excitement towards our flowers grew even more.  I love yellow, but with Irish skin and hair, it's not always something I feel I can pull off.  But as an accent to two colors that I know I can pull of?  Sure!  Why the heck not!
Our final palette, courtesy of Color Combos

With that style and palette in mind, we decided on the following:

White Peonies
Peonies definitely satisfy the "fluffy" criterion.  In fact, they exemplify it.  These things are huge, soft, and sweet.  The downside?  They were actually the most expensive of all the flowers we used...so we didn't end up using a lot of them.  These flowers are most easily available during late spring and early summer.

White Garden Roses
Source
Garden roses are a bit more offbeat than traditional roses.  They're typically cut and arranged after they've had a chance to bloom a little bit, rather than the tight-knit buds.

White Ranunculus
I love ranunculus.  Ranunculi?  Ranunculuses?  Anywho.  To me, they look like the quirky cousin of the rose.  Their layers of petals seem to spiral around the center of the bud, creating a sense of whimsy.  The best time of year for them is April or May, so they were perfect for us!  Fun fact: buttercups are members of the ranunculus family.  True story!

Green Hypericum Berries
Hypericum berries are probably my favorite way to add a touch of color to a mostly-white arrangement.  They're so dainty, but they can add so much contrast.

Blue Thistle
Okay, this is the part where I start squealing a little bit.  But really, look how cute they are!  They just remind me of "Horton Hears a Who" or something.

Yellow Tea Roses
Tea roses are similar to the garden roses above, but they're smaller and more delicate.  In yellow, they reminded me of something from "Beauty and the Beast."  (Sorry.  You knew that was going to be in here somewhere.)

Cotton Blooms
Wanna know the easiest way to save money on flowers?  Don't use flowers!  Seriously though, I've seen so many brides use fabric or paper or brooch bouquets, and it always looks stunning.  One of my new favorite trends is cotton.  It's fluffy and it fills a lot of space.  Best of all, it doesn't matter whether it's real or fake...no one can tell the difference!

Yellow Ranunculus
I love the pop of color this adds.  I'm especially excited to see it next to the white ranunculus.

Fiddlehead Ferns
I love this one so much, even the name makes me smile!  I'm so excited to use this on the boutonnieres.  It's whimsy at its finest, in my opinion.

White Hydrangea
These will only be in our centerpieces, not in the bouquets.  I love hydrangeas, but they are thirsty little devils.  They do not do well outside of a vase for a very long time.  Additionally, they're late-summer/early-fall flowers; so even though you don't need a lot of them to fill space, the fact that they were out of season during our wedding made them too expensive.

Overall, my bouquet will be more colorful than my bridesmaids'.  Most inspiration that I found was the opposite, but I feel like my girls are wearing enough color.  Something simple and mostly white would balance them out nicely.  Conversely, something bright and vivid would contrast well with my dress!

And now, allow me to leave y'all with a few money-saving tips that I picked up during my floral adventures:
  1. Buy local. Less travel means less additional expenses.
  2. Buy seasonal. If you have your heart set on something that's off-season, that's fine, but I would highly recommend supplementing that feature flower with some complementary seasonal blooms.
  3. Size matters. Bigger blooms means fewer blooms!  Sometimes this can look a little funny, but choosing fillers like berries or thistles can help to fill the gaps.
  4. Bridesmaids' bouquets don't have to be for the ceremony only.  We're having the girls place them somewhere during the reception.  We haven't decided where yet, but that's one less thing that will need flowers!
  5. Mix it up.  My favorite idea that my florist had was to do two different kinds of centerpieces.  Seven tables would have larger centerpieces, and six would have smaller centerpieces.  When looking at the room as a whole, it still looks pretty full.  When looking at it sitting at the table, you don't really notice if your centerpiece is smaller because you're busy eating and talking!  Paying for seven large centerpieces instead of 13 can save you quite a bit.

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Flower Personality

We began our florist search just like we did for any other vendor.  We did some googling, we read some reviews, we looked at some websites and blogs.  It was rather mundane.  I just didn't feel too strongly about flowers.  We had so many other priorities when it came to our wedding plans; flowers just weren't one of them.  All of that changed when we actually found our florist, Angie of Birch Blooms.

It all started with a phone call.  After making a list of potential florists, I called Angie to schedule an interview.  I left her a voicemail, to which she promptly responded by email.  The surprising thing about this email was that she commented on my phone number.  "954?" she asked.  "Are you from South Florida?"  A few emails later, and we had figured out that we went to the same high school.  How crazy is that?  Now, maybe it's the baseball fan in me.  Maybe it's the Disney brainwashing.  But I feel like I know a sign when I see it.  I held off on scheduling interviews with the other potential florists, and I started researching flowers so that I would somewhat know what I was talking about at Angie's interview.

She had asked me what my favorite flower was.  As I'd mentioned earlier, it's the tulip.
{personal photo}

I didn't know if the tulip really fit our wedding flower personality.  I love them, but I think I like them better for birthday presents than for decorating our wedding.  So, I started pulling together some inspiration pictures...





I brought Sister Lioness with me to a local Starbucks for my appointment with Angie (she was in town visiting and had nothing better to do than lend me her artful eye).  When Angie looked through the pictures I had brought, she said, "Sooo it looks to me like you're going for soft, romantic, and whimsical...with a hint of fluffy."

Sister Lioness kicked me under the table.  Her eyes said, "Dude!  It's like she's in your head!"

I responded to Angie with, "Well, the fluffy part hadn't occurred to me...but yes!"

Upon discussing which particular flowers we would be using, we indeed confirmed that my flower personality included "fluffy."  We discussed how much and how little color to include.  We discussed seasonal options, larger blooms, and we examined other possible ways to save money.  The meeting went really well!  When the quote came through a few days later, I was pleased.  Angie definitely got what we were going for, and she managed to stay within our budget.  So what did we end up going with?  Stay tuned!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Inviting the VIPs

Of course, all of our wedding guests are VIPs!  But the people I'm talking about here are the ones who don't fall under the "family," "friend," "coworker," or "strange neighbor" categories.  I'm talking about the people who are invited but who are not exactly expected to come.  Mrs. Lemon previously discussed inviting the president, among others, and we decided to do the same.

The White House apparently has a separate greetings office that deals exclusively with invitations and announcements.  If you send your wedding invitation to this office, you may receive a personal greeting from the president.  I don't believe it's guaranteed, but it's certainly worth a shot!

So why is an April bride blogging about this in October?  Well, upon further research, it seemed that brides who successfully received a White House greeting sent their invitations approximately six months prior to their wedding date.  Sister Lioness designed our invitations and we're printing them ourselves.  We were putting off the daunting task of printing until just before sending them out in January, but we figured we could assemble some a bit early.  I wish I could show y'all the whole thing because I'm so psyched about Sister Lioness' fab design, but I gotta let the guests see them first.  Til then, enjoy these gray envelopes with wrap around labels!
{all personal photos}

As you can see, we chose to "invite" four households: the President and First Lady, the Pope (you may recall that Mr. Lion is Catholic), and Mickey and Minnie.  Okay, that's really three households...but we sent one to Disney World and one to Disneyland.  We figured this would help increase our chances of getting a response!  Here are the addresses in case you're interested:

The Honorable and Mrs. Barack Obama
The White House, Greetings Office, Room 39
1600 Pennsylvania Avenue NW
Washington, District of Columbia
20502

Pope Benedictus XVI
Prefettura della Casa Pontifica
00210 Citta del Vaticano
Italia

Mickey & Minnie Mouse
The Magic Kingdom
1675 North Buena Vista Drive
Lake Buena Vista, Florida
32830

Mickie & Minnie Mouse
The Walt Disney Company
500 South Buena Vista Street
Burbank, California
91521

I'll definitely keep y'all posted if and when the responses come in!  Who would you invite?  I considered adding one more person to the list, but I wasn't sure Mr. Lion would approve...

Friday, October 8, 2010

In Memory of Awesomeness

Unfortunately, Mr. Lion and I have both experienced loss and grief in our lives.  We would both like to include those loved ones in our wedding somehow, so we started exploring some options.  I've seen "In Memory" sections in programs, but that didn't seem personal enough to me.  I've always thought memorial candles are really beautiful, but I still had one reservation.  These options seemed perfectly appropriate for grandparents, great aunts, older adults.  What if one of the people missing from your wedding was someone younger?  It just didn't seem to fit.

I've mentioned before that my cousins and I are close, almost like extended siblings, and my cousin Mark was the big brother to us all.  I grew up worshiping him.  He was hilarious, he was kind, and he was never too cool to play with his little cousins.
Personal photo, circa 1987 (I'm the one in the floaties!)

At one of our favorite places in the world (10 points if you can name it!) in 2003

Mark passed away about five years ago after battling Hodgkin's lymphoma.  I hate to sound cliche, but not a day goes by that I don't miss him.  I knew I had to think of something besides a memorial candle to include Mark in our wedding.  If my grandfather knew that he would be memorialized with a candle, he would think it was nice.  If Mark knew that he would be memorialized with a candle, he would say, "Dude.  Seriously?"  His sister did something unique for him on her wedding day, and I knew I needed to do the same.

One of the things I admired most about Mark was his creativity.  He always had these crazy schemes, but he usually didn't follow through with them.  The one idea he did actually put into action was designing his own clothing company.  It's not exactly in stores (yet), but he did design and print a few items.  The company is called Freekware, and its intention was to celebrate the uniqueness inside each individual through positivity and inspiration.  The logo is supposed to look like a surfer on a wave...also, (according to Mark) it's apparently an "F" on it side.

The Freekware logo has become a part of the Lioness clan's culture.  It represents so much of what we're all about and, more importantly, it represents someone who was such an important part of our lives.  Every time my cousins and I get together, someone's bound to wear it.  Mark's sisters have since taken over the company, and I can't wait to see what they do with it!  They recently distributed a new line of designs, which each of us threw on immediately:
Yeah, we make matching and coordinated family reunions look cool.

The symbolism behind the Freekware logo made it the perfect tribute.  But how to incorporate it into our wedding?  Allow me to introduce you to the bouquet charm:
 Source: HyStudio via OffBeatBride

It's amazing to me how something so subtle and dainty can come across so powerfully in photos.  I knew I had found my solution.  I found all kinds of bouquet charms on Etsy, but most of them were a little over budget.  Then, I stumbled upon Mrs. Crab Cake's post on bouquet charms, where she discusses the DIY option.  I followed her advice and looked into Etsy seller AnnieHows.  She did not disappoint.

A DIY kit to make six bouquet charms with your own image...for $14.  For a reasonable price, not only can I represent Freekware (and Mark), my bridesmaids can too!  I can't wait to show y'all the final product.

How have you chosen to remember loved ones who couldn't be with you on your wedding day?

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Just Dance

I'm what we in the rehabilitation world call a "motor moron."  This means that my motor skills (muscular movement that results from signals from the brain) is not exactly smooth.  I'm clumsy.  My parents realized this early on and stuck me in ballet class in an attempt to improve my coordination.  The result?  I was (and still am after decades of training) quite graceful on stage; not so much in real life.
Personal photo, circa 1992...check out that turn out!

Dancing has always been a part of who I am.  It's the first thing I can remember being passionate about.  Before weddings, before baseball, and yes, even before Gator football.  Dance has always been a wonderful escape for me.  When I take a dance class, I'm focused on the present, no matter what else is going on in my life.  It's always been the perfect emotional outlet for me regardless of what I'm feeling or going through.  Best of all, it's always been the perfect way to express pure joy.  Spontaneous dance parties expressing pure joy are pretty much my favorite thing in the world.
Personal photo of a spontaneous dance party, circa 1990

In fact, they're still known to happen 20 years later:
Another personal photo...What a dork.

Given my love of dancing, you can imagine that our first dance as husband and wife is kind of important to me.  I knew we needed a song that captured this passion adequately.  I wanted something that allowed anyone listening to it to bask in joy, focus on the present, and love everything about that moment.  Allow me to introduce you to my favorite band of all time, 311.

Sure, reggae/rock/alternative is not your traditional first dance kind of music, but it's us.  Their music is filled with positivity and always makes me feel happy.  Best of all, it seems to promote a sense of unity.  In fact, my newly married cousin got engaged at a 311 concert three years ago.
 Big deal, right?  Well, here's the twist: this photo was taken by a random girl who was standing next to them.  This total stranger quickly grabbed her camera when she discovered that she was witnessing a proposal.  The photo then showed up on my sister's Facebook newsfeed the next day...because she and this girl are friends.  If that's not unity, I don't know what is!

We chose the 311 song "Two Drops in the Ocean" as our first dance because we felt a connection to the lyrics.  The song is about a relationship that is separated by distance.  The relationship ebbs and flows, but they never stop loving one another.  Our relationship, too, started out long-distance.  Eventually, our patience was rewarded and we ended up in the same place, but we always cherish how we got to that point.  In order to further convey this sentiment, we plan to print the song lyrics to our first dance on the back of our menus.  I hope it will allow our guests to share in our story and to reflect upon their own.  So without further ado, here's our first dance song:
Source: 311 via YouTube

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Treasure Hunting

I.  Love.  Antique stores.  I could spend hours and hours in thrift shops rummaging through random crap that no one would want.  Why?  Because I love that rush you get when you stumble upon something amazing.  Recently, I spent an afternoon in Inman Park's At the Collective and Poncey Highland's Highland Row Antiques (both local favorites of mine).  Sometimes these places are a swing and a miss, but I totally lucked out this trip.

First, I found this hand mirror:
I decided that it would look perfect in the womens' bathroom at our venue.  This got me on a bathroom-shopping spree.

Next, I found this tray:
I decided I could use this tray to hold cotton balls, bobby pins, anything else that girls might need to touch up in the bathroom.

What?!  I'll use it for something!  I don't know what for, but you never know!  Besides, it was less that $1.

I thought this box would be useful to store more discreet bathroom items, like tampons.

Then, I decided that the mens' needed a box as well.  But for manly things...like...breath mints? Tweezers?  I'll figure out the details later :)

Of course, I couldn't let the mens' bathroom have just one item in it.  So, I found this to match:

And finally, I saved the best for last.  Corgi pictured to show actual size:
{all personal photos}

You'll have to wait and see what we use that mailbox for!

Maybe these details are trivial, but I think they're pretty likely to strike up a conversation or two!  What kinds of antique or thrift shop treasures have you discovered?

Contain Yourself

One of my favorite trends in wedding decor is the non-floral centerpiece.   Since flowers can really add up, using non-floral centerpieces can be an easy way to save money.  It's also a great way to incorporate your theme, allowing for an opportunity to add a little more personality to your decor.

It can also bring a seasonal, or perhaps even regional, element to your decor.  Liiike citrus...be still, my Floridian heart.

We'll delve further into the contents of the Lion centerpieces in a later post.  Today, I'd like to focus on what contains the centerpiece.  There's nothing wrong with standard glass vases, but let's stick with our theme of creative and cheap and think outside the box a little bit.

One of my favorite clear glass alternatives is milk glass.  It looks crisp and clean, and it provides lovely contrast to brightly colored flowers.

Did you know that you can DIY faux milk glass?  Seriously!  Check out this tutorial from Ruffled Blog:

Another favorite of mine is mercury glass, whose touch of bling makes any decor more romantic and elegant.

And again, it's easy to recreate!
Before

After
{Tutorial and photos by My Backyard Eden}

This next one doesn't even require a tutorial, but here's some inspiration nonetheless:

Tin cans!  That actually fits in pretty nicely with our rehearsal dinner...hmmm...

Still not your cup of tea?  Check out Mrs. D'Orsay's wine bottle centerpiece tutorial or Mrs. Paisley's birch-covered vase tutorial!

What unique centerpiece containers have you run into?  Are you using traditional vases or something different?